So it’s now mid-January. How are your goals and resolutions going? Damn.
Let me guess, you either:
- Missed the mark for starting your new years’ resolution (there’s always next year right?)
- Started out strong but fell off the wagon around day 5
- Are killing it with your goals.
In order to be successful in achieving your goals you first need to understand the common struggles with setting goals, the flexibility available when things don’t seem to be going your way, and the strategies for making the most out of your 2018. This week I have 4 simple steps to set you on track to taking control of the next 12 months and beyond.
1. Stop Setting Time Limitations
Nothing is ever going to go as scheduled. So what if it’s not January first – you have the choice to steer your life in whatever direction you choose, any day of the year! The great thing about navigating adulthood is that each day affords a new chance for you to decide which way you want to go.
If you’ve tried something new and you’ve failed, it’s okay to try again. If you’ve decided that you would rather steer course in a different direction, that’s fine too! You do not need the permission of a date on a calendar to start pursuing the things you have always wanted. Stop limiting yourself, and start chasing your dreams.
2. Find Purpose
Motivation is fleeting. What seems like a good idea one minute, may bore you the next. It’s important not to rely solely on your initial motivation, as it will most certainly fizzle. You instead need to determine the root of your motivation and use that as your purpose.
- Why are you doing this?
- What are you hoping to achieve?
Goals are only worth having if they enrich our lives so find your deeper purpose to create that value.
3. Establish a Meaningful Vision
Where is it you want to get to with your goals? What is it going to help you achieve? By creating the larger picture of what you want your life to be, you will more easily manifest these results into your reality. A vision of the future that matters to you will help you stay motivated to achieving your goals.
4. Remember There is No Finish Line
As a society we have created an illusion that some magical fairytale exists at “the end of our goals” – this is a lie. With every new achievement comes new responsibilities, and there is no real end game. Think of a time you started a new job with a few tasks. Chances are, over time, you accumulated more tasks, more responsibility, and more opportunities.
Life is always changing. You are always learning new skills. You will never be able to predict what the future holds, but you need to be prepared to adapt to these unexpected changes.